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(003) Making 2012 a Positive One..



New Year is often the time where we can all feel a bit glum about things, I don't know about you but me and my girlfriends have been attempting to put aside the January blues and look at things in a  more positive light. Easier said than done! 

However today I woke up and though I would start reading these 'Self Empowerment' cards again. Now if some of you have been reading my blog for a while you will know that I go through phases with using these cards. I tend to pick them up when I'm feeling like I need to be more positive about things. I also know a few close friends of mine are going through difficult phases of their lives and I thought this would be a good way for us all to stay focused on number one! 

The lessons are simple and to be honest it really gets you thinking about yourself and changing your mindset. I am going to try and upload these as often as I can because I feel like they help me so who knows if they may just be of help to you. If not I know my girls are logging on to see what their daily lessons are! 


Todays Lesson : Choose to Heal 


This is a day to reflect on troubling emotions and transform them in a  positive way. Identify one unresolved area of anger and hurt and ask yourself why you're still not at a peace. Focus on how much power you lose to negative feelings. 

Your goal : To realise you chose to stay angry when you can chose to heal

Let's make 2012 a good one.. 

NB: I wrote this post earlier in the day unfortunately I had a bit of a traumatising experience this evening. I got assaulted by two guys on a motorbike who pushed me over and stole my iPhone. Feel slightly shook up and seems pretty difficult to see things on the positive side. Hopefully in a few days I'll be feeling better.. 

Lots of Love



  1. read about this on twitter, so sorry that you had to go through that :( but at least you are ok and that's the main thing, hope you can get a new phone soon x

  2. Oh I bet your really shook up from that situation. But you know what Zara? Everything happens for a reason. Instead of dwelling upon two crazy jerks who had nothing better to do than assult a beautiful person such as your self think about how you can turn this misfortune into a highlight of the year and the wonderful blessings to come. : ) please feel better.

  3. Oh my gosh! I'm so so sorry that two evil men would do that to you! That is absolutely horrible! Thank you for being an inspiration and still staying positive.
    xoox Debby

  4. im so sorry to hear that... i hope you feel better soon

  5. You poor thing, what a terrible thing to happen :( I hope you feel better soon. Big hug x

  6. wow...thats crazy but it is well...a better fone is coming your way.

  7. I really hope you start feeling better soon!

    Sending lots of positive energy your way.

  8. God, some people are really nasty :|!
    I hope you're feeling a little bit better now.
    I also struggle with negative thoughts and probably "self empowerment' cards would be a good thing for me.

  9. Here's hoping things will be better soon!

  10. This is such a good idea! :) i really hope your ok,what a horrible thing to happen there are some awful people out there, stay positive! x

  11. This is so lovely Zara! Im one of those people who do think very negative as well, would be lovely if you could post this from time to time :)

  12. Hi Zara, I was so sad to hear that. Those guys are so far from empowerment and I hope you feel better really soon as that is so evil, you have the power to move on in the future. sending you all the positive energy i can, i always find your blog so celebratory of life and friendship and experiences x

  13. I'm trying to be a whole lot more optimistic this year! :) x

  14. So sorry to hear about your incident, people are so cruel. Those cards are a great idea though, I've never seen them before, will def have to try and pick some of those up!

  15. Thanks for all your comments.. Feeling a litter better today xxx

  16. I love those cards! Do you think I can get them online or somewhere here in the states?


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